The world is full of opportunities, pursuits, and interesting ways to spend our time. As human beings, we can be incredibly ambitious, creative, and motivated -- the world is our oyster! I know there are times when I really just want what I want-I can actually be pretty selfish; just ask my husband! After all, I have my own interests, my own ambitions, my own needs, wants, desires, plans, and so on. But, while those things are important and I have every right to pursue them,